Surviving the Festive Stress: A Guide for Parents, Carers, and Teachers

Join host Andy Baker on this special Christmas Eve episode of the Able to Care podcast, created with parents, teachers, and caregivers in mind. In this heartfelt discussion, Andy shares practical self-care strategies to help you manage the joys and stresses of the holiday season. Whether you’re juggling family responsibilities, navigating classroom challenges, or supporting loved ones in your care, this episode offers actionable advice to keep you grounded and prioritise your wellbeing. 🎄

With Christmas tomorrow, Andy reminds us that caring for others starts with caring for ourselves. Discover ways to create a meaningful and balanced festive season that benefits both you and those you support.

Resources Mentioned

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• Andy’s Book, Targeting the Positive with Behaviours That Challenge:
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Key Messages for Parents, Teachers, and Carers

1. Understanding the Emotional Challenges of Christmas
   For parents, teachers, and caregivers, the festive season can amplify both joy and stress. Andy discusses how to navigate common pressures like family dynamics, financial strains, and the invisible labour of caregiving, from managing children’s emotional needs to handling classroom chaos. Recognising your own needs is key to creating a peaceful and meaningful Christmas for everyone.

2. Simple Self-Care for Busy Caregivers and Educators
   Self-care doesn’t need to be time-consuming or costly. Andy shares small but powerful strategies, such as planning ahead with a to-do list, prioritising tasks using the Eisenhower Matrix, and setting clear boundaries. These tips are tailored to help parents and carers balance the demands of family life, and for teachers, they offer ways to avoid burnout during this hectic time of year.

3. Building a Balanced Festive Season
   From staying hydrated to maintaining healthy routines, Andy emphasises the importance of physical and mental wellbeing during the holidays. He introduces the "spoon theory," a concept for managing energy levels, and encourages parents, carers, and teachers to lean on their support networks. Gratitude exercises are highlighted as a way to shift focus to the positives, even during stressful moments.

Key Timestamps

• 00:00:00 – Welcome to this Christmas Eve episode and its focus on caregivers, parents, and teachers.
• 00:02:31 – The emotional challenges of Christmas for caregivers and educators.
• 00:03:41 – How to balance family dynamics, financial pressures, and classroom stress.
• 00:06:10 – The value of boundaries and how to say no to overcommitments.
• 00:08:10 – Tips for planning ahead and prioritising tasks effectively.
• 00:13:14 – Maintaining energy with self-care, gratitude, and physical wellbeing.
• 00:18:59 – Andy’s book Targeting the Positive—a must-have resource for managing behaviours.

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Closing Thought

Christmas is a time for giving, but that includes giving to yourself. Whether you’re supporting children, students, or loved ones, remember that your wellbeing matters. Wishing you a joyful, peaceful, and meaningful holiday season. Thank you for joining this special Christmas Eve episode of the Able to Care podcast. 🎄