The ADHD Smarter Parenting‘s Podcast
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It’s only natural for children to seek out situations where they feel confident, competent, independent, and autonomous. As discussed in the previous podcast, many children turn to video games to help fulfill these needs. Parents can counter the positives children receive from playing video games by using Effective Praise.
Effective Praise can increase your connection with your child as it teaches you how to validate the good things your child is doing. When children feel approved by their parents, it increases their confidence, competence, independence, and autonomy, which strengthens the emotional bond you have with them.
Getting praise signals to your child, “Hey, my parents are proud of me. My parents see what I’m doing well. I like it when they notice it. I want to keep doing this so they continue.”
As that bond strengthens, the benefits will be that your child listens to you more. They will spend more time with you. They will seek out your advice.
We can’t stress how important giving Effective Praise is.
One of the steps of Effective Praise requires parents to give their children a reason why they should continue the positive behavior. This step is hard for many parents. Most of us, when giving a reason to behave a certain way, give a reason that’s meaningful to them and not always to the person they are talking to.
When parents are able to give their child a meaningful reason, they are more likely to repeat that behavior as they feel like they are getting something out behaving that way. It can take some trial and error to figure out the things that are important to your child. If you’re struggling to figure out what is motivating your child, look at how they spend their free time or money. Those tend to be things that matter to them.
This podcast will be so insightful in helping you create a better bond with your child.
For full show notes and transcript visit: https://www.smarterparenting.com/adhd-parenting-podcast/
Ep #191:Motivating your child
Ep # 190: ADHD vs Bedtime
Ep # 189: The Importance of Role Playing For The ADHD Brain
Ep # 188: Making a Change in Our World
Ep # 187: Finding Bids for Connection From Our Children
Ep 186: My child has ADHD but also ODD. What do I do?
Ep # 185: How to Correct Negative Behaviors with My ADHD Child
Ep #184: Consequences, a Small Piece of the Parenting Puzzle
Ep #183: Customizing Chore Charts for your Child
Ep # 182 Building Confidence in Parenting
Ep # 181: Why You, as a Parent, Need Strength Based Tools
Ep # 180: Complex ADHD. What it is and how to help your child.
Ep # 179: How to help your child (and others) understand ADHD
Ep # 178: Overcoming Decision Paralysis
Ep # 177: How to Talk to Your Child About Current Events
Ep #176: A Guide to Roleplaying with your Child
Ep #175: Gifts, Quality Time, and Acts of Service ”Love Languages” Part 3
Ep #174: Touch and Words of Affirmation ”Love Languages” Part 2
Ep #173 Connecting Through ”Love Languages” Part 1
Ep #172: Combining the technical and artistic side of parenting
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