The Avoidant Attachment Style & P*rn Use In Relationships | Can This Be Fixed

2024-09-16

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Zeo dive into common fears and challenges in relationships, particularly for individuals with dismissive or fearful-avoidant attachment styles. They explore the emotions and thoughts behind major relationship steps like moving in together and answer listener questions from Reddit and YouTube. Topics include understanding the avoidant mindset, how attachment styles influence cheating, and navigating difficult conversations around sensitive topics like pornography. Tune in for insights, practical advice, and personal...

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Zeo dive into common fears and challenges in relationships, particularly for individuals with dismissive or fearful-avoidant attachment styles. They explore the emotions and thoughts behind major relationship steps like moving in together and answer listener questions from Reddit and YouTube. Topics include understanding the avoidant mindset, how attachment styles influence cheating, and navigating difficult conversations around sensitive topics like pornography. Tune in for insights, practical advice, and personal stories on how to cultivate secure and healthy relationships.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

02:34 - Moving in With a Partner

04:21 - DAs Need Time Alone

07:27 - DAs and Co-Regulation

09:14 - Living With Your Partner: DA Stages

11:51 - Shame and Acceptance

13:21 - FAs Fears in Relationships

17:26 - Assuming Childhood Experiences into Adulthood

21:02 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass

21:54 - DAs / FAs and Cheating

23:07 - Mike’s Response

26:02 - Why They Cheat

27:04 - DAs: Talk to Your Partner

31:43 - Meeting Your Needs

36:32 - Routines to Stay Connected

40:27 - Hello Fresh

41:54 - Indeed

43:46 - Question

44:16 - Mike’s Response

47:55 - Thais’ Response

53:26 - Find the Root Cause

56:05 - Talk to Your Partner (Mike)

57:40 - Talk to Your Partner (Thais)

59:09 - Find More Mike DiZio and PDS Content

59:46 - Conclusion

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