BHE 128 - KILLING YOUR IDOLS - Alexandra

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— (1:40) Sx types and Sx middles are most prone to delude themselves into thinking they’re going for what they’re passionate about or self-transforming
— (7:18) Social clout chasers with no genuine connection
— (8:51) The psychological penetration of sexual can be used to get cheap ego hits that avoids any risk and self-transformation
— (12:05) Discussions in John’s study group on using the instinct for ego vs using it to support the real needs of the body and inner life
— (14:32) It’s not just attachment types that get into relationships for the wrong reasons
— (20:04) You’re not missing out on what you think you are without sexual in the stacking
— (24:31) It’s through our core type and dominant instinct that we approach the needs of our other instincts and centers
— (27:02) There is no compatibility formula that works as a replacement for two humans meeting each other / how each instinct uses templates to create orientation to others
— (35:06) We settle for nonsense because it’s difficult to risk having nothing while expecting more
— (39:53) Separating eros from the sexual instinct / idealizing types is like looking through garbage to find something real
— (59:06) You’re lame because you’re lame. Not because of your type, trifix, or instincts.
— (1:05:06) People quitting the enneagram when their ego fixes are taken away / #nota4 filtering out those using the enneagram to validate their ego
— (1:10:12) Fine tuned observation of the self and others is what a group centered on typing encourages / self-observation and misery as the gateway for self-work and change

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