In this episode of Pleasure Principles, host Pragya sits down with Louis Brantmeyer for a grounded conversation on sexual wellness, pleasure, intimacy, and nervous system regulation. They challenge two extremes. Treating pleasure like an optional “vitamin” for high-achievers, or treating orgasm and spiritualized sexuality like a cure-all for trauma and life problems. Lewis shares a practical framework for integrating desire without shame, compulsion, or performance pressure, plus why real connection can look like touch, pre...
In this episode of Pleasure Principles, host Pragya sits down with Louis Brantmeyer for a grounded conversation on sexual wellness, pleasure, intimacy, and nervous system regulation. They challenge two extremes. Treating pleasure like an optional “vitamin” for high-achievers, or treating orgasm and spiritualized sexuality like a cure-all for trauma and life problems. Lewis shares a practical framework for integrating desire without shame, compulsion, or performance pressure, plus why real connection can look like touch, presence, and honest communication, not just sex. If you’re navigating libido shifts, modern dating culture, porn-driven expectations, or “conscious” spaces that sometimes blur boundaries, this episode brings a clear middle path focused on maturity, consent, and sustainable intimacy.
About the Guest:
Louis Brantmeyer is a philosophy-trained teacher and author exploring sexuality, intimacy, and personal development through both research and lived experience. He’s the author of A Creationship’s Inception and The Treasure of Souls Touching, and he speaks about building aligned relationships without swinging between repression and excess.
Key Takeaways:
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Pleasure supports well-being, but it is not a magic fix for trauma, anxiety, or relationship dysfunction.
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High-performers often deprioritize intimacy. That can be intentional, but chronic avoidance can create stress, shame loops, and disconnection.
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The goal is integration. Learn to shift between focus, creativity, rest, and intimacy without guilt or overindulgence.
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“Pleasure” can include affection, non-sexual touch, closeness, and emotional honesty, not just intercourse or orgasm.
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Many people confuse connection with performance. Sustainable intimacy prioritizes safety, consent, pacing, and communication.
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Sexual energy can fuel creativity and motivation when handled responsibly, rather than being spent compulsively.
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Media and porn-informed scripts can distort expectations. Rebuilding healthy desire often requires unlearning unrealistic patterns.
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In “conscious” or spiritual sexuality spaces, power dynamics matter. Clear boundaries protect everyone, especially student-teacher contexts.
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Individual needs vary by stress, health, hormones, and season of life. Experiment responsibly and track what actually improves your life.
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When conversations touch trauma, shame, or mental health lows, support systems matter. Therapy and trusted community can stabilize the path.
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