Ep 290: Unmedicated Birth, Unfiltered Business: Lisa’s “Loudmouth” Journey

We talk about trusting your instincts a decent amount around here– but what does it look like to LEARN how to lean into those instincts?  

 

This week we’re speaking with Lisa, who found the confidence to trust her instincts during pregnancy, which has changed her trajectory both as a mother as well as an entrepreneur and coach. Lisa Villani is a rebellious doula, sassy sales coach, hip-hop dancer, and mama to her spunky son in Buffalo, NY. She's married to her ride-or-die and believes fiercely in building a life where both parents get to thrive. After an unmedicated, out-of-hospital birth cracked her wide open, Lisa made it her mission to help women rewrite the narrative of motherhood, money, and identity. A survivor in every sense—of divorce, disordered eating, and a medical system that tried to silence her—she now stands as the loudest voice in the room for women ready to own their power, whether they're giving birth or selling their offers. She's also the host of the Loudmouth Lisa podcast—because playing small was never an option.

 

Episode Roundup:

1. Connection.  We see the theme of connection flowing through Lisa’s story, and I think that we also see connection in the way that Lisa tells her story.  Lisa is so clearly a connector.  One of my favorite parts of this interview was hearing the beauty in Lisa’s connection with her son, Enzo, from the very beginning.  She spent time dancing with him en utero, and she felt this pull their physical connection together.  During the first part of the day as she went into labor, she spent time connecting with him as she labored alone, during her pushing phase, we see her turn inward to reconnect with her baby and to tell him that they were going to work together to push him out now— and they did!  And then immediately postpartum, Lisa spent those six hours that her husband needed to sleep connecting individually with this beautiful little soul that was now on the outside.  As I think of Lisa stepping into this new area of motherhood, where she allows Enzo to go spread his wings through beginning his new co-op, I think of how that connection is what is allowing that little boy the confidence to try new things.  Lisa cut the cord after her birth and traded one connection for another, and she like all of us as mothers, will experience those cord cutting moments again and again.  The connection didn’t end when she cut the cord, but it transformed.  And here she is again with a transforming connection as her little one starts something new.  My goodness, the depth and beauty of growing and changing while maintaining tethered to one another.  
2. And next, I want to emphasize the power of what Lisa is sharing with other mothers, women and mompreneurs through her deep understanding of sales.  She sees that her ability to trust herself and to know and accept the value that she brings to others is what makes herself and the women that she works with successful.  These very same lessons that she has learned through motherhood: To listen to her instincts, to be the vibrant, bold mother and woman that she was designed to be.  That is her gift to her family, and that is her gift to the world and those whom her work touches. 

Links:

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Youtube | https://youtu.be/vOX6ZwIKrB0?si=89yOWGXndtEa5yVe

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