The Porn Problem? Pleasure, Practice, and What No One Taught Us at School

Is porn “the problem”… or are we using it to fill an education gap?
In this episode, Cherry Dana and Chloe Pillans get radically honest about how on-screen sex bleeds into bedrooms—angles for cameras, pain sold as pleasure, and the silent pressure to perform. We unpack why foreplay is rarely shown, how that skews expectations, the reality of actor prep, and the ripple effects on orgasm, body image, and consent.

You’ll hear a frank chat about clitoral vs penetrative pleasure, “dick dysmorphia,” chasing intense novelty, and why some acts are about stretch sensation—not prostate play. Most importantly, we give you a simple, trauma-informed framework for consent and safe words so you can actually enjoy what’s real for your body.

This is a compassionate, unfiltered de-programming for anyone raised on secrecy and sealed-section sex ed. Take what serves, leave what doesn’t—and bring a high-lubrication mindset.

Content Warning: explicit sexual discussion, anatomy, anal play, fisting mentioned, performance pressure, stigma.