Are you being looked at in your mind?

I spoke with a women at the salsa club tonight.  We discussed her mindset and thinking that others were looking at her in a negative way while she danced.  Or perhaps they had mean thoughts.  It was very hard for her just let go and dance freely.  I danced with her of course and tried to do some nerdy moves to lighten her up.  I think it worked.  Listen to this episode if you suffer from the same type of problems.