EP 50 How to avoid divorce, with Author and Relationship Coach, Matthew Fray

2022-12-12

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This is a MUST-LISTEN Episode! My guest is Matthew Fray, the man who coaches husbands on how not to end up divorced. His book "This is How Your Marriage Ends" was not only eye-opening for me, but has been a game changer for many of my clients. In this episode, we discuss why the marriage lesson that most learn too late is that the existence of love, trust, respect, and safety in a relationship is often dependent on moments we might write off as petty disagreement Show Notes 00:05 Intro: "This is How Your Marriage Ends" 01:47 Why a dish...

This is a MUST-LISTEN Episode!

My guest is Matthew Fray, the man who coaches husbands on how not to end up divorced.

His book "This is How Your Marriage Ends" was not only eye-opening for me, but has been a game changer for many of my clients.

In this episode, we discuss why the marriage lesson that most learn too late is that the existence of love, trust, respect, and safety in a relationship is often dependent on moments we might write off as petty disagreement

Show Notes

00:05 Intro: "This is How Your Marriage Ends"

01:47 Why a dish by the sink can lead to divorce

03:31 Why sometimes good men can be terrible husbands

11:00 Without trust, there is no relationship. Trust erosion can lead to the phenomenon of "duty sex"

17:04 For a relationship to be successful, people need to be aware of their actual motivations and priorities

22:07 Should we sweat the small stuff or not?

24:56 Both parties should be aware of the subconscious drivers of their behavior and relationship issues, and why broken marriages lead to broken children

31:26 For a relationship to work, BOTH parties need to work on themselves, and Matthew's book is a great practical resource

Matthew’s links:

Website

Book

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