Coming Back to the Table: The Imperfect Side of Peace

From the outside, it can look like I’ve built a perfectly peaceful life of open conversations and harmony. The truth? Choosing openness often means choosing discomfort. In this episode, I talk about what peace actually looks like in practice—the messy parts, the triggers, and the moments I’d rather keep my mouth shut.

I share recent stories with a sibling, my dad, a close friend, my wife, and a raw moment with my mom where I snapped, then called back to apologize. You’ll hear how I’m learning to zoom out (think S&P 500 growth curve) and keep “coming back to the table”—again and again. Peace isn’t the absence of conflict; it’s a commitment to connection, repair, and telling the truth with love.

If you’ve ever stayed silent too long, lost your cool, or said something you regret, this one’s for you.

Highlights / Takeaways

Peace is an internal practice, not a perfect outcome.

Triggers happen; repair is what keeps relationships growing.

“Coming back to the table” > “winning” the conversation.

Zoom out: judge growth over years, not days.

Apologizing doesn’t erase convictions—it deepens connection.

Gentle Note

This episode includes candid reflections on LDS culture/leadership from my current perspective. If you’re a believing member and that feels tender right now, feel free to skip—or listen with curiosity and care.

Call to Action

Got a story to share? I’d love to hear from you or have you on the show: postmormonpeace@gmail.com