In this episode with Louis Zezeran we go deeper into the topic of relationships.
- Would you like to know what is his relationship status?
- What does he think about Estonian women?
- Would you like to know a bit more about his relation to his parents and teenage years?
- Would you like to see Louis being curious about new ways to relate?
This episode is more like a deeper conversation about being human and how to tackle the challenges we have been facing.
Louise is a true healer in Estonia - prescribing laughter with his Comed...
In this episode with Louis Zezeran we go deeper into the topic of relationships.
- Would you like to know what is his relationship status?
- What does he think about Estonian women?
- Would you like to know a bit more about his relation to his parents and teenage years?
- Would you like to see Louis being curious about new ways to relate?
This episode is more like a deeper conversation about being human and how to tackle the challenges we have been facing.
Louise is a true healer in Estonia - prescribing laughter with his Comedy Estonia to all the people coming to listen and excited about being entertained.
A truly deep episode about life and its challenges! Enjoy!
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Summary:
03:00 Is Louis still single?
03:31 Estonian women - how are they?
03:56 People are people no matter where...
04:10 2 women and 2 men at work
04:25 Gender balance with comedians is harder
04:46 Changing gender balance in art takes time
05:05 Special shows for women organized
05:42 If you only see men on stage it may give you a certain picture
06:03 Very strong, independent and doing things on their own
06:19 Women had to take charge here in the old times
06:35 Thrive for independence
06:50 Takes some time to get used to – as a foreigner
07:02 For Estonians second or third impression more important
07:29 Let them warm up first – especially emotionally
07:48 Cultural thing more than women thing
08:00 Men were taken away, sent to Siberia – men went to work in other countries
08:29 Cultural carefulness – who I can trust – KGB – not here
09:26 Beautiful women – independent, educated and no relationship
09:50 Mid to late twenties – super independent till then
10:23 Biological clock goes off – I need to get the man to have a baby with!
11:16 Small date pool – Tinder – 17 swipes and done – not many suitable partners around
11:56 Crystal's hunt for the Mr Right while traveling to 30 countries in 14 years
13:09 Not a fairytale - he found him – it is real
13:21 Louis - "I am as trapped as any other Estonian man"
13:36 Trying to grow as an adult – learn to accept love
14:01 Only child – how to accept people and let people in
14:33 Benefits of Estonia – great public health care – subsidized therapy sessions
15:21 Australian in Estonian winter - how to cope?
15:45 Readily available in Estonia now in English too
16:10 What is it am I looking? What has not been working?
17:05 Look deeper into the inner patterns
17:29 The process – how was that?
17:44 Crystal discovered going against myself in relationships – acknowledge it
18:06 Self-declaration list for myself with an example
19:45 I am not a rebound or backup any more - I am more!
20:28 Alanon – for family members of alcoholics
22:03 Second step – get to know them very good prior becoming intimate
23:01 No sex for the first months
23:45 A man to co-create with
24:28 Show me the spreadsheets!
24:48 Strong feminine and masculine
25:02 Crystal's “love internship”
25:28 Crystal's 5 page agreement with her king
26:58 Assuming and presuming in relationships does not work any more
28:00 Michael's past
28:28 Practical things people can do
28:44 Give a thought for a relationship agreement
30:11 Earlier part of your story
31:19 Accepting and allowing love
31:31 Pushing people away and unconscious patterning
32:33 Answers from parents
33:09 I am not going to get the resolution from my parents
33:42 Started his conversations with his parents
34:26 Keep the subtle healing process with parents
34:37 Trying to healing the initial difficulty
35:14 Crystal's parents story of death
36:07 Alcohol dependency finding other ways to express itself
36:33 First six years kids are like sponges
37:13 Crystal jumped out from the second floor as a kid with her sister
37:52 Inner Family Archetype's work
40:19 Abundance in Action – IT guy who has the comedy guy inside
40:50 Making living in Estonia working
41:18 Journey of healing is usually longer
42:06 Accepting your humanness – and patience
42:55 Legacy – Comedy Estonia continues to live – free expression of your thoughts
43:51 Important for society to have a place for free expression – bigger than me
44:33 Haigekassa – prescribe Comedy Estonia for Estonians
45:03 Comedy Estonia online (see info below)
45:22 Last message – take a moment to consider the other person's point of view
45:46 How can I take a step back and detach from this moment?
46:00 How can you detach and calm down and consider what the other person says?
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Louis Zezeran:
To read more about Louis check out these pages:
www.facebook.com/louiszezeran
www.zezeran.com
www.anchorfm/comedyguy
www.comedyestonia.com
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