Leading in the Direction of Relationship with Wendy Hu-Au

Summary

In this conversation, Pastor Wendy Hu-Au invites us into the story beneath the title—her unexpected and deeply formative journey into serving as senior pastor at Metro Hope Church. What emerges isn’t just a leadership story, but a picture of what happens when faith is lived in real community.

We talk about the early moments that shaped her, the people who formed her, and why she’s so drawn to the idea of microchurches—not as a strategy, but as a way of being with people. Wendy keeps bringing us back to this: transformation happens in proximity, in honest relationships, in showing up.

She names the tension of leadership with refreshing honesty—the vulnerability it requires, the questions it surfaces, and the courage it takes to stay open when easy answers aren’t there. And woven throughout is this quiet but steady conviction: the church has a role to play in pushing back against what diminishes people and partnering in what brings life.

Takeaways

• The gospel has to touch real life, or it’s not good news yet. 
• Faithful leadership stays open, even when the answers have not been revealed yet. 
• Resisting empire involves creating inclusive spaces for marginalized voices. 

 

Episode field note: Leading Without All the Answers

There’s a moment in leadership most people try to avoid, but most of us live in: I don’t know.

The world is not getting simpler. And leadership that depends on certainty is going to keep collapsing under the weight of real life.

Maybe faithful leadership isn’t about closing the gap between question and answer. Maybe it’s about becoming the kind of person who can stay in the gap—and not leave others there alone.

 

Resources and links

Hope Metro Church NYC

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