In this powerful and transparent episode of Men Under Construction, Brandon Couch sits down with Nathan Sheets to discuss their parallel journeys through perfectionism, performance-based identity, and the search for true worth. Nathan opens up about growing up in a Christian household, the burden of adult responsibilities at a young age, and the emotional toll of trying to earn love. He shares how family trauma, mental health struggles, and college breakdowns eventually led him to discover God’s unconditional love and begin a journey of self-discovery and healing.
Brandon also shares deeply from his own experience—turning to alcohol to cope with depression and self-worth issues, and how a breakdown on his birthday became the catalyst for sobriety, faith, and brotherhood. Together, they offer a message of hope: that we are not defined by our failures or performance, but by the unshakable love of God.
Key Takeaways:
God’s love is not transactional—it’s transformational
Perfectionism and performance can mask deep wounds
True healing begins with vulnerability and surrender
Community and prayer are powerful tools for recovery
Our worth comes from Christ, not what we do