In this powerful and deeply moving conversation, Chell sits down with Seth Gehle to uncover his journey from a childhood marked by relentless trauma and sexual abuse to becoming a published author and motivational speaker. Seth courageously shares his story of growing up in a chaotic and dysfunctional home shaped by addiction, neglect, and manipulation. He reveals the profound impact of the ongoing sexual abuse he endured at the hands of a trusted adult, the silence and shame that followed, and the lasting scars it left on his sense of...
In this powerful and deeply moving conversation, Chell sits down with Seth Gehle to uncover his journey from a childhood marked by relentless trauma and sexual abuse to becoming a published author and motivational speaker. Seth courageously shares his story of growing up in a chaotic and dysfunctional home shaped by addiction, neglect, and manipulation. He reveals the profound impact of the ongoing sexual abuse he endured at the hands of a trusted adult, the silence and shame that followed, and the lasting scars it left on his sense of self.
Through raw and vulnerable storytelling, Seth reflects on his rebellious youth, the betrayal of those he should have been able to trust, and the critical turning points that shaped his resilience. He delves into the complex emotional battles he faced, including the struggle to recognize manipulation and the difficult path to seeking help and reporting his abuser. Mentorship became a lifeline, guiding him through some of his darkest moments as he worked toward healing and survival.
Together, Chell and Seth explore the psychological weight of sexual abuse trauma—its lasting effects on trust, identity, and emotional well-being—and emphasize the importance of embracing vulnerability in the healing process. They discuss breaking the silence, confronting shame, and the role of therapy and self-compassion in overcoming the long-term effects of abuse.
Seth’s Socials
https://www.instagram.com/seth_gehle?igsh=M2J0Y21tNGdlYXZu
https://www.youtube.com/@sethgehle
https://www.facebook.com/share/1Uwjt6kSab/?mibextid=wwXIfr
https://sethgehle.com
Seth’s book: Strength Beyond the Shadows
https://a.co/d/2RI0m67
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
National Sexual Assault Hotline
RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line
741741
https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Seth Gehle and His Story
01:33 Seth's Childhood and Family Dynamics
05:20 Abuse and Neglect in Early Life
09:14 The Impact of a Dysfunctional Home
16:25 The Role of Foster Care and Its Challenges
18:41 Rebellion and Troubled Youth
27:07 Finding a Mentor Amidst Chaos
31:46 The Betrayal of Trust and Abuse
42:29 Manipulation and Control in Relationships
45:30 The Complexity of Sexual Abuse
52:53 Resilience Amidst Trauma
57:34 Hope and the Will to Overcome
01:12:01 The Complexity of Manipulation
01:25:17 The Turning Point: Reporting the Abuse
01:35:39 Life After Trauma: Military and Healing
01:40:17 The Role of Therapy and Self-Help
01:42:28 Embracing Shame and Vulnerability
01:43:32 The Power of Being Triggered
01:53:19 The Importance of Sharing Your Story
01:57:04 Spring Cleaning for the Mind
02:00:19 The Decision to Heal
02:05:09 The Role of Empathy in Healing
02:06:59 The Courage to Share Your Story
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
