When we believe and trust that God loves us and is for us and has created us, provides for us, and saves us, our Primal Questions can be used to direct our primal role on earth. Once we feel safe, we feel driven to help others feel safe. When we feel wanted, we want to ensure others feel wanted. When we feel successful, we want to help others succeed. When the questions drive us in our role because we know what God says about us, we move out of codependent relationships.