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1-22-19
KISS - The hottest band in the world
Loaded up some new videos on Youtube…
The world record for kissing is 11,030 people in one hour.
Kisses blown are kisses wasted, kisses are not kisses unless they are tasted, kisses spread germs and germs are hated, so kiss me baby, I'm vaccinated."
After five years of exhaustive laboratory study sponsored by the United States Public Health Service, Dr. Doran D. Zimmer of Daytona, Florida, concluded that kissing can cause tooth decay.
Campus Life, February, 1980, p. 47.
4 weekly reminders for every man…
These are the little things that make a huge difference.
*Now to be fair… I don’t understand women. they can pour hot wax on their body, rip the hair out but are still afraid of a spider…
So I did my homework and reviewed these with my wife!
K. kindness
Prov. 11:17 A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself.
Kindness is not weakness, rather it is genius. It will always pay huge dividends in marriage.
A beautiful woman married to an ugly man. A close friend of hers once asked in privately, how did such an ugly man attract you and marry you?
She looked with the most sincere and simple reflection and said, he has never hurt my feelings… he is the kindest man I have ever met.
The quicker you are kind, the greater the impact for the one on the receiving end… and the payoff later for you is greater.
Women walk into church and i comment on their hair or make up… I was raised with a pack of women… but the woman glare at their husbands because they did not notice.
Eph. 5:25
Husbands love your wives as christ loved the church….
He became just like us, practiced our rituals as humans, ate our food, breathed our air… he took interest in all we were even though we would kill him.
What are your wife interest? seek to understand them, ask questions, become interested.
I really believe that interest lays down the basic foundation for love in a relationship.
S. safety
1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.
Weak - physically weak.
gas in the car, windshield wiper fluid, drop her off and pick her up, walk her to the car door and open it, take her hand when walking in a dark theatre, Protect her ears from hurtful speech, Do you take the brunt of disciplining the kids… little ways to make her feel safe.
S. space
Eph. 5:28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
Everyone needs space to reframe the day, the week … Life!
You need space to learn, reflect and grow
You need space to replenish
Find out when and how your wife needs space and give it to her daily or weekly as needed.
If you have kids at home wether they are 1 week old or 30 years old… your wife needs space!
Jesus took care of his time by regularly getting away and finding space.
Honest - It took me almost 10 years to learn some of these…
Don’t wait!
Todays challenge: Review these four points with your wife, or girlfriend or mom or some female and get even more feedback!