How to Win Over a Fearful Avoidant in the First 3 Months of Dating

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Dating a fearful avoidant and not sure how to build real connection without scaring them off?

This episode breaks down exactly what you need to know to create emotional safety and deepen your bond in the early stages of dating a FA partner.

Thais walks you through the unique needs fearful avoidants have in the first 3 months—and how to avoid the common mistakes that make them pull away. Whether you're new to attachment theory or deep in the work, this episode is packed with insights that will help you show up with confidence, curiosity, and care.

What You'll Learn:

✔️ The 4 Pillars of Connection (and how FAs prioritize them)
✔️ Why presence and depth matter more than grand gestures
✔️ The role of novelty and transparency in building trust
✔️ How to ask the right questions to create intimacy
✔️ Subtle behaviors that help a FA feel emotionally safe

This isn’t about playing games—it’s about 

Meet Your Host:

Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a global leader in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and build secure, thriving relationships.

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