EP 2414 - Being Glued To Your Phone Is A Clue You’re Cheating

Episode Summary:

In this episode, Teresa Conway dives into the subtle signs that your phone habits might be giving you away if you’re cheating. She explores how changes in phone use can raise suspicion and offers strategies to desensitize your partner to your increased phone activity. Teresa also discusses the importance of gradually shifting your phone habits and how to make your partner lose interest by sharing annoying jokes and comments.

Key Discussion Points:

• Changes in Phone Habits:

  • Everyone has a specific way they use their phone, and your spouse is keenly aware of yours. Any sudden change, like increased phone use or taking more calls in private, can be a red flag.

• Masking Increased Activity:

  • If you're not typically glued to your phone, a sudden spike in usage will be noticeable. Teresa suggests gradually increasing your phone time by engaging in harmless activities, such as playing games like Words With Friends or joining online groups.

• Desensitizing Your Partner:

  • Join groups or engage in activities your spouse dislikes. Teresa advises showing your partner stupid or annoying jokes and comments from these groups to increase their disinterest. For example, repeatedly sharing crude humor or silly memes can make them less curious about what you’re doing on your phone.

• Creating a Cover Story:

  • If your partner asks what’s making you smile, you can simply attribute it to a joke or comment from a group they dislike. Over time, they'll become used to seeing you on your phone and will stop questioning your behavior.

Key Takeaways:

• Gradually increase your phone usage to avoid raising suspicion.
• Use annoying or uninteresting content to make your partner disinterested in your phone activity.
• Over time, your partner will become desensitized to your increased phone use, giving you more freedom to communicate with your affair partner.

Quotable Moment:

"If they get suspicious, your goose is half-cooked. But if you desensitize them by sharing jokes they hate, soon they won’t care what you’re smiling at."

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