Episode 85: How Leaders Can Ask Questions That Don’t Feel Like an Inquisition

Hey, Friend!

We’ve all been there—sitting in a meeting where the questions feel less like curiosity and more like an interrogation. Even when a leader’s intentions are good, the way questions are asked can leave people defensive, guarded, or even discouraged.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

In this week’s episode of Leadership Becomes Her, I share practical strategies for asking questions that build trust instead of fear. You’ll learn:

✅ Why questions sometimes feel like an inquisition
✅ The mindset shift from questioning to improve vs. questioning to prove
✅ 8 practical strategies for curious, supportive conversations
✅ Real “swap this for that” examples you can use immediately

Whether you lead a team at work, a ministry, or even within your home, the way you ask questions shapes the culture around you.

Let’s commit to asking questions that invite growth—not shut it down.

I pray this blesses you!

Becky

P.S. Forward this email to a fellow leader who could use some encouragement in how they approach conversations!