The first 30 days after discovering infidelity feel like an emotional tsunami—shock, rage, grief, and an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. But what you do (and don’t do) during this time can set the foundation for your healing journey.
In this power-packed episode, betrayal recovery coach and advocate Lora Cheadle walks you through the critical dos and don’ts of the first-month post-discovery. Learn how to stabilize your emotions, avoid common mistakes that keep women stuck, and reclaim your personal power—without waiting for closure, clarity, or your...
The first 30 days after discovering infidelity feel like an emotional tsunami—shock, rage, grief, and an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. But what you do (and don’t do) during this time can set the foundation for your healing journey.
In this power-packed episode, betrayal recovery coach and advocate Lora Cheadle walks you through the critical dos and don’ts of the first-month post-discovery. Learn how to stabilize your emotions, avoid common mistakes that keep women stuck, and reclaim your personal power—without waiting for closure, clarity, or your partner to change.
Top Takeaways:
- What NOT to do in the first 30 days (including the #1 mistake most women make!)
- How to regulate your nervous system using somatic healing and hypnotic meditation
- Why legal and financial clarity is crucial—even if you don’t plan on leaving
- How to reclaim your agency, set healthy boundaries, and start healing on your terms
- The powerful FLAUNT! framework to rediscover yourself beyond betrayal
This episode is the first in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—so be sure to subscribe and tune in next week for Part 2!
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About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
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- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021
- Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019
Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren’t made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self?
FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own.
It’s time to stop living for others and start living for you.
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It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive
Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being.
If you’re ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap.
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