Mirror Moments: When Teen Attitudes Reflect Our Own | Episode 342

When tension rises and your teenager's attitude seems unbearable, pause for a moment of honest reflection. Could their defensive posture be a response to something in your approach?
The teenage years bring a natural push for independence alongside rapidly changing emotions and perspectives. In these challenging moments, the question worth asking isn't just "Why won't they listen?" but "Am I truly hearing what they're trying to say?"
Communication breakdowns often occur when teenagers feel their thoughts and feelings are dismissed before being understood. By stepping back and genuinely seeking to understand their perspective—without immediate judgment or correction—you create space for authentic connection.
This doesn't mean accepting disrespect, but rather recognizing that meaningful dialogue requires both parties to feel valued. Sometimes, the most powerful parenting tool isn't asserting authority but demonstrating the humility to listen first.

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