Some of us found being a good little boy or good little girl very rewarding and safe. We like being able to control what happens to us by doing things by the book, expecting God and others to acknowledge our efforts. Sadly, some of us have made it our business to be more concerned about what is expected of us than we are aware of what we truly want and believe. We are angered when God is not fair and all our efforts and sacrifices seem to be for naught.