Getting Rid of IT

2012-01-19

Getting Rid of the Bull 1 Kings 19; Matt. 14:25-31 Today we are going to talk about “IT.” We talk about “IT” a few times a year. If you don’t remember what “IT” is, “IT” is anything that you don’t want to talk about. The “IT” in your life you wish wasn’t there: the toxic relationship, difficult habit, secret you keep. “IT” is the thing that when it comes up you get nervous, or defensive, or evasive. No matter where you start you are going to have to deal with “IT” or “IT” will keep getting bigger. I have “IT”s, yo...

Getting Rid of the Bull

1 Kings 19; Matt. 14:25-31

Today we are going to talk about “IT.” We talk about “IT” a few times a year. If you don’t remember what “IT” is, “IT” is anything that you don’t want to talk about. The “IT” in your life you wish wasn’t there: the toxic relationship, difficult habit, secret you keep. “IT” is the thing that when it comes up you get nervous, or defensive, or evasive. No matter where you start you are going to have to deal with “IT” or “IT” will keep getting bigger. I have “IT”s, you have “IT”s, everybody has “IT” and nobody likes to admit “IT.”

Once you’ve accepted the challenged, made the decision you take action. Clarity produces certainty.

Elisha got definition about who God determined him to be. When he accepted the prophet’s cloak he knew his life would change forever.

Action: Movement toward what you really want

Direction, not intention, determines destination.

Elisha moved in a definite direction, he killed his bull and destroyed one yoke (the oxen’s) and took on another (Elijah’s mantle or yoke). Great things in our lives are rarely accidental

Alignment of time and energy Elisha made a decision; he used the plow as firewood and got rid of the bull. He chose to deal with it.

You have three choices when you are dealing with “IT.” You can fake it; fear it; or face it.

Fake it: pretend like “IT” doesn’t bother you or that its not there. Another version of the ostrich strategy, you are either avoiding dealing with the truth or lying to yourself.
Fear it: if you are afraid of “IT” you have given it the power to control your life. The waves so distracted Peter that he let them have the power.
Face it: the thing about “IT” is that dealing with it is less painful than faking it or fearing it once you face it. (BTW, that’s face it, not Facebook it)

Adjustment of everything else.

Elisha had focus, he packed up and left. With the bull now bbq and the plow now kindling, he had freed up his time and energy so that he could do what was his highest and best calling for his life.

The key to focus is to eliminate the distractions, and some of the distractions are good things, but you have to let go.

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