Author Joel Derfner talks about his new memoir
“Lawfully Wedded Husband: How My Gay Marriage Will Save the American
Family” with Emmy Winner Charlotte Robinson host of
OUTTAKE VOICES™. In his memoir Derfner
chronicles his path to marrying his longtime partner. Joel reflects on
his insecurities, draws upon his family history and most importantly
addresses American politics surrounding marriage equality. Derfner had
to plan two weddings, one in a state in which his marriage was legal and
one in which his famil...
Author Joel Derfner talks about his new memoir
“Lawfully Wedded Husband: How My Gay Marriage Will Save the American
Family” with Emmy Winner Charlotte Robinson host of
OUTTAKE VOICES™. In his memoir Derfner
chronicles his path to marrying his longtime partner. Joel reflects on
his insecurities, draws upon his family history and most importantly
addresses American politics surrounding marriage equality. Derfner had
to plan two weddings, one in a state in which his marriage was legal and
one in which his family and friends could easily congregate to
celebrate the occasion. His observations about the implications of this
are infused with the perfect mix of serious scholarship, self-effacing
humor and humility. We talked to Joel about his new book and his spin on
our LGBT issues.
When asked what his personal commitment is to LGBT civil rights Derfner
stated, “I would say that my personal commitment isn’t so much to LGBT
civil rights but to the rights of all disenfranchised. Right now in
America we’re one group that’s under attack but there’s a lot of other
groups who are also under attack, women, the poor and people of color in
respect to sexuality. Harvey Milk said when he won his seat as San
Francisco
Supervisor, ‘Without hope, not only gays, but the blacks, the seniors,
the handicapped, the us'es, the us'es will give up. And if you help
elect to the central committee and other offices more gay people, that
gives a green light to all who feel disenfranchised, a green light to
move forward. It means hope to a nation that has given up, because if a
gay person makes it, the doors are open to everyone. So if there is a
message I have to give, it is that if I've found one overriding thing
about my personal election; it's the fact that if a gay person can be
elected, it's a green light and you have to give people hope.’ So I
guess my commitment to LGBT civil rights is to make sure the us’es
realize we’re all in the fight together and victory for one group is
victory for all. We have to fight not for ourselves but for each other.”
Joel Derfner is from South Carolina where his great-grandmother had an
affair with George Gershwin. After leaving the South he got a B.A. in
linguistics from Harvard. Realizing that linguistics was not his forte
he moved to New York and earned an M.F.A. in musical theater from the
Tisch School of the Arts. He has written numerous books and musicals
scores for productions, produced in London, New York and various cities.
In 2010 Joel co-starred in Sundance Channel’s reality soap “Girls Who
Like Boys Who Like Boys” as the nervous groom on his way to the altar by
his inexplicably single friend Sarah. The season finale showed his
wedding in Iowa, which was the first legal wedding of a same gender
couple in America on television.
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