Ep 216 Reframing Our Suffering with Colleen Swindoll Thompson

Colleen Swindoll Thompson speaks today about "reframing her pain" and what she didn't learn in Sunday School. "We don't like to hear that life includes suffering," Thompson states, "and that modeling how to suffer well is the best legacy we can leave our children." She was raised well and she figured if she did "her part for God and with God" she'd be okay. But she wasn't.

Through multiple difficult and tragic circumstances, she learned to lean in toward God and allow Him to do his refining work, and all of it helped her establish "Reframing Ministries"—an organization to bless, encourage and support the caregiver.

Colleen will be giving away a copy of her book When Life Isn't Fair: What They Didn't Tell You in Sunday School this week. Leave a comment below or on social media to be entered to win. 

Some gems from our conversation:

• God's way is so different from what we plan—so much bigger and better but we don't see that right away.
• I was raised with the idea that if I do my part, God would give me an abundant life without suffering.
• I want to leave a legacy of listening well because that means I'm loving well.
• How I treat others that God has entrusted into my care takes vulnerability and the willingness to ask for help.
• We can face our challenges and trials either by fighting with God, asking "Why, God?" and trying to fix things on our own or by asking Him, "What do I do now? You've given me this day and these trials—I need help." 
• God knows you: your health, your emotions, your relationships—all the things—and He will supply the person or persons that you need when you need it.
• When we find ourselves stuck, not knowing how to move forward, the first step is to acknowledge our need; then pray, "Lord, I don't know what to do."
• God doesn't say, "I need to you do" as much as "I need you to be"—close to me, crying out for help and resting in His presence.

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Maybe someone in your neighborhood needs to hear Colleen's message of reframing. If I don't know my neighbor, it's hard to love them as Jesus loves them. You can start by hosting a coffee. This printable can get you on your way, including two simple recipes (I only do simple)—