You can make the most accurate estimation of one's spiritual depth, when the right decision to make in a costly situation isn't totally clear cut and obvious. God will intentionally bring us all to point where we don't know what to do in order to try us and reveal the innermost contents of our heart. It is in these situations that we climb in our "tower", lock the door, refuse unnecessary human counseling, and get the mind of God. Often times the option that is easiest on the flesh is not Gods will. In the words of Pastor Hampton "you better pray and pray hard." (preached on 12/22/07 at Springfield (OH) fellowship meeting, picture taken as he was preaching).