Battle of the Sexes

So many of us are searching for love, with a silent operating system of fear and distrust running that we are not aware of.

Sexual violence, the patriarchy, and disrespect may not be your choice, but if you are not acknowledging their very existence, you are unlikely to find true and conscious love.

Big Love, Epic Sex and fulfilling relationship happen when we are willing to look at everything blocking us from having them. 

It is hard to feel safe in the unknown. Heteronormative people with vulvas and people with penises CAN get together, but not without healing this in ourselves, so that it may be healed in relationships.

Short story reference by Ted Chiang