141: Why a Husband Avoids Initiating Conversations and How to Resolve It

2024-04-18

Initiating conversations can be very difficult for a husband to do. If his wife is in a good mood, he doesn’t want to bring up the pain all over again. If she's in a bad mood, he doesn't want to cause a fight or make things worse. Thus, he avoids the conversations with her and she ends up feeling unseen, unloved, and all alone. In this episode, I share with you specific ways you can address this situation so you can have very productive conversations without fighting and create closure and connection again in the relationship.

Initiating conversations can be very difficult for a husband to do.

If his wife is in a good mood, he doesn’t want to bring up the pain all over again.

If she's in a bad mood, he doesn't want to cause a fight or make things worse.

Thus, he avoids the conversations with her and she ends up feeling unseen, unloved, and all alone.

In this episode, I share with you specific ways you can address this situation so you can have very productive conversations without fighting and create closure and connection again in the relationship.

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