The wrath of God is not God's temper flying off the handle. The wrath of God is the set of his nature. God does not have love he is love. By the same token, God does not have wrath, it's not something he suddenly gets. Wrath is the set of his nature. Wrath is part of his goodness. God would not be good if he was not angry at sin that would destroy his creation.
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