We have been given free will. Therefore, we make choices. Do we ever think in advance about the choices? The outcomes? There is a process to this. In each choice there is an opposing choice. Choose Love, counter is Hate. etc. One builds, one destroys.
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control;” Gal 5:22,23