Social media can be a guessing game when it comes to parents and their children's use or youth worker and their students in a ministry context. At times it can feel like we are at battle with each other, taking shots from opposing sides instead of playing this game alongside each other. Guidelines only assist us so we can all be better together. We want to provide guidelines and suggestions, but parents and youth workers should also ask the question - do these guidelines apply to me as well? - before immediately applying them to our students and kids.