Potency is standing in the fire and choosing not to burn yourself.”
What do a travel nightmare, a betrayal, and a broken plan all have in common? They each offer you a choice—not just in how you respond, but in who you choose to be. In this raw and real episode, Lora shares the story of a 24-hour travel meltdown and the powerful metaphor it became for life after infidelity.
Discover how to navigate the 3 P’s:
Pissed (when you spiral in blame and frustration)
Passive (when you check out or freeze)
Potent (when you own your power...
Potency is standing in the fire and choosing not to burn yourself.”
What do a travel nightmare, a betrayal, and a broken plan all have in common? They each offer you a choice—not just in how you respond, but in who you choose to be. In this raw and real episode, Lora shares the story of a 24-hour travel meltdown and the powerful metaphor it became for life after infidelity.
Discover how to navigate the 3 P’s:
- Pissed (when you spiral in blame and frustration)
- Passive (when you check out or freeze)
- Potent (when you own your power and act in alignment with who you really are)
Because healing isn’t about pretending everything is fine. It’s about staying present, breathing through the fire—and choosing not to burn everything down.
Whether you’re deep in betrayal recovery, coping with change, or just having a rough day, this episode will remind you: You are more powerful than your circumstances. Book Your Introductory Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/first-time-session
Top Three Takeaways:
- Your Identity Is Always a Choice
You don’t choose betrayal—but you do choose who you’ll be on the other side of it.
- Don’t Become the Emotion
Feel your frustration, anger, or sadness—but don’t become it. You are more than your feelings.
- Potency = Aligned Presence
Real power isn’t about control—it’s about staying grounded, acting with intention, and living in integrity even when life is a mess.
Special Announcement! Book ReleaseDon’t miss the release of Lora Cheadle’s new book, “It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery.
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About Lora:
Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, TEDx speaker, and author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal.
After uncovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned her own pain into purpose—helping high-achieving women reclaim their identity, power, and joy.
A trauma-aware coach, somatic therapist, and former attorney, Lora blends legal insight with emotional and spiritual healing for full-spectrum recovery.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
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Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.
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Books By Lora
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021
- Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019
Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren’t made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self?
FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own.
It’s time to stop living for others and start living for you.
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It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive
Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being.
If you’re ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap.
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