We Is Greater Than Me

In today's message, we delved into the profound and often challenging topic of marriage, focusing on the biblical principles found in Ephesians 5:21-28. The essence of a strong marriage lies in mutual submission, where both partners willingly place the needs of the marriage above their individual preferences. This revolutionary idea, especially in the context of the time when Paul wrote it, calls for a balance of power and respect between husbands and wives, liberating both to serve each other in love. Marriage is not merely a romantic endeavor but a commitment that requires hard work and dedication. Many young couples enter marriage with an idealistic view, believing that love alone will sustain them. However, the reality is that marriage involves both better and worse times, and it is through these challenges that couples grow stronger together. The key is to understand that marriage is not about "me" but about "we," and this requires a shift from individual desires to collective goals. The concept of submission is likened to a submarine going below the surface to fulfill its mission. In marriage, this means placing one's own desires under the mission of the marriage, prioritizing the relationship over personal preferences. Healthy couples focus on resolving conflicts rather than winning arguments, understanding that sometimes personal sacrifice is necessary for the greater good of the marriage. Christ must be at the center of the marriage, serving as the foundation that enables mutual submission. With Christ as the mediator, couples can navigate the challenges of marriage with grace and unity. A marriage centered on Christ is less likely to fall apart, as He brings peace, order, and unity. Finally, the role of the Holy Spirit as the enforcer in marriage is emphasized. It is not our job to enforce change in our spouse; rather, we must trust the Holy Spirit to work in our hearts and in our marriage. By focusing on our own growth and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide us, we can build a marriage that reflects God's perfect plan.