Workplace Romances - What the Coldplay Kiss Cam Can Teach Employers

The Coldplay kiss cam broke the internet last week and no one expected to see a CEO and CPO (yep, the head of HR!) in the spotlight. But beyond the headlines lies a much juicier compliance dilemma.

We recognise that many employers across New Zealand probably haven't even thought about workplace relationships or where they can go wrong. In this episode, host Sanam pulls apart the legal implications of workplace romances, especially when the power dynamic is off-kilter. She unpacks the real-life case of Raravula v Northern Rescue Helicopter Ltd [2025] NZERA 238, where a workplace romance collided with serious employment consequences.

You’ll learn:

• Whether NZ employers can actually "ban" relationships at work

• When disciplinary action could be justified

• How to manage risks without overstepping legal boundaries

• The key lessons from the Raravula case (and what Northern Rescue got right and wrong)

If you’re in HR, lead a team, or just love a good case breakdown with a side of legal tea - this one’s for you.

Craving more insights? Sign up to the Law Lenz Newsletter! CLICK HERE!

Need help figuring out if you have the right worker on your hands? Download the ‘Who’s Your Worker?’ guide HERE - this is a FREE resource packed with top tips, FAQs, quizzes + more to help you classify your worker with confidence.

Follow Sanam on LinkedIn for key employment law updates.

Got questions? Send them our way, and Sanam will feature them in the next episode. Email your queries to asklawlenz@gmail.com.

Check out the Law Lenz website HERE.

Resources:

• ERA Determination Raravula v Northern Rescue Helicopter Ltd - Employment Relations Authority

Disclaimer: The content presented in this episode is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as legal advice. The host does not assume any liability for actions taken based on the content of this podcast. While the host is a lawyer, they are not your lawyer and the information provided is based on general legal information. This podcast does not create a solicitor-client relationship.While we strive to keep the information accurate and up-to-date as at the date of each episode, laws and regulations may change, and the content of this podcast may not reflect the most current legal standards or interpretations. Listeners are encouraged to consult with a qualified New Zealand legal professional for advice tailored to their specific situation.