How to Love Someone.

I was watching Star Talk the other day and a scientist, Helen Fisher, was on talking about the love.

Turns out that there are areas of the brain that activate when the brain is experiencing love and affection.

In fact, there are 3 systems that combine to create love.

The sex drive – the drive to reproduce with someone with compatible genes.

The romantic love system – which focuses our attention on 1 person at a time, which presumably helps us figure out how to satisfy the sex drive.

And attachment, which helps us feel secure in the relationship. We all need this.

Love is a combination of sexual drive, romantic focused attention and attachment. 

What apparently makes love different from lust is that your attention is focused on one person! 

Want to love someone? Focus your attention on them. 

Help them feel secure in your presence by being a good ethical person who supports them.

And get with the sexy sexy.