You’re Not ”Extra”, They’re Just Not Enough!

2025-06-11

They say you’re too much, but what if you’ve just been asking the bare minimum from people who’ve benefited from your silence? In this no-sugar, fully-cured episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret Perry pulls the curtain on performative relationships, those connections that look great in public but leave you drained in private. We talk about partners who show up when there’s an audience (but not when it matters), the guilt-trip gaslighting that follows, and how to reclaim your

They say you’re too much, but what if you’ve just been asking the bare minimum from people who’ve benefited from your silence?

In this no-sugar, fully-cured episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret Perry pulls the curtain on performative relationships, those connections that look great in public but leave you drained in private. We talk about partners who show up when there’s an audience (but not when it matters), the guilt-trip gaslighting that follows, and how to reclaim your intrinsic confidence without apology.

Expect truth, a little fire, and real talk on boundaries, burnout, and being the damn plotline, not someone else’s prop.

Whether it’s your spouse, your bestie, your coworker, or your cousin... if you're tired of carrying the emotional load, this one’s your permission slip to drop it.

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