Ep. 96 Hugs, Not Hammers: The Gentle Power of Parental Influence

2025-07-22

“You don’t have to shout to be heard. Your gentleness might be your most powerful parenting tool.” In a world that feels louder and harsher by the day, our kids need homes that reflect the gentleness of Christ. In this episode, Rene and Rebekah explore how discipling with tenderness creates lasting influence in your child’s heart. You’ll discover:🌿 Why gentleness is strength, not weakness and is modeled perfectly by Jesus🏠 How your tone and presence shape your child’s sense of safety🛠️ Practical ways to disc...

“You don’t have to shout to be heard. Your gentleness might be your most powerful parenting tool.”

In a world that feels louder and harsher by the day, our kids need homes that reflect the gentleness of Christ. In this episode, Rene and Rebekah explore how discipling with tenderness creates lasting influence in your child’s heart.

You’ll discover:
🌿 Why gentleness is strength, not weakness and is modeled perfectly by Jesus
🏠 How your tone and presence shape your child’s sense of safety
🛠️ Practical ways to disciple through hugs, calm correction, and everyday grace
💡 How to make your home a holy ground in a harsh world

🗝️ Key Scriptures:

– Matthew 11:29
– Proverbs 15:1
– Philippians 4:5
– Ephesians 6:4
– Galatians 5:22–23

💬 Episode Highlights:

How gentleness creates space for real influence
The difference between correction and condemnation
Why your calm presence speaks louder than control
Practical ways to disciple with tenderness (even in tough moments!)
The importance of being a safe place in a noisy, critical culture

🙏 Prayer Prompt:

– Thank God for His gentle love and faithful patience with you
– Ask Him to help you disciple with kindness, calm, and Spirit-led wisdom
– Pray over your child—especially while they sleep

📘 Want more support?
Grab Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids by Rene Christensen—perfect for parents who want to grow spiritually and lead their kids with confidence, even if they’ve never been discipled themselves.

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