163: How to Soften The Pain of Betrayal Due to Pornography Use

I once worked with a woman who was completely overwhelmed because her husband continued to struggle with pornography use.

She was at her wits end.

She felt like a ball of anxiety always waiting for the other shoe to drop and could never really feel comfortable in her skin and safe in the relationship.

The moment she started to let her guard down it just so happened that he would mess up again.

They had been in this loop for the past 10 years of their marriage.

When she reached out, she asked me this specific question – how do I handle it so that this doesn’t bring me down and it takes a day or week to deal with it?

We had a conversation that day, and I shared with her a couple of thoughts that helped to soften the pain of betrayal she was feeling.

I want to share those with you as well so you as a husband or wife, listening to this can know how to find or provide some relief as you’re working on repairing things.

 

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