Keeping ashes

I recently met with a man who had a severe form of cerebral palsy.  He was ignored and unloved and uncared-for as a child, but he met a woman who deeply loved him.  Then, she died.  He was confronted with the task of dealing with her death.  One of his biggest concerns was that he would not be able to visit her grave, given his disability.  I helped him find a solution that would honor her.