Season 3 - Episode 2: Molly Bertles - A Journey of Healing and Hope

Episode #2 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess

Guest: Molly Bertles

 

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, hosts Jinda and Kimmy engage in a candid conversation with Molly Bertles about the often-avoided topic of female masturbation within the Christian community. Molly shares her personal journey of struggle, shame, and eventual healing through biblical counseling. The discussion emphasizes the need for open conversations in the church about women's sexuality, the impact of cultural narratives, and the importance of understanding God's design for sex. Listeners are encouraged to seek community, accountability, and spiritual disciplines as they navigate their own journeys toward purity and intimacy.

 

Takeaways

• Molly struggled with masturbation from a young age, feeling shame and secrecy.
• The church often avoids discussing female sexuality, leading to isolation for women.
• Cultural narratives around sexuality can conflict with biblical teachings.
• Understanding God's design for sex is crucial for women struggling with guilt.
• Shame can significantly impact intimacy in marriage.
• Masturbation can become a form of self-worship and idolatry.
• Community and accountability are essential for overcoming struggles with sexuality.
• Open conversations about sexuality can help break the stigma in the church.
• Spiritual disciplines can aid in pursuing purity and understanding God's design.
• Molly hopes her book will provide clarity and support for women facing similar struggles.

 

Relevant Links

Book Highlighted

• You Are Not Alone (Molly Bertles)

Other Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Pastor Warren’s Blog

 

Warrenism of the Week: “What you focus on is what you hit. That's why God says 'put off' AND 'put on.' Stopping the wrong isn't enough; you have to replace it with what's right."