How to Heal When You Lose Control: One Woman’s Story

My guest today recalls and heals from a traumatic birth and issues around losing her power. Whether it is a traumatic birth, multiple miscarriages, lost children, rape, sexual abuse, or painful relationships, women carry a great amount of their past in their womb. Until everyone of these women are healed, and the matrix is connected, there will always be more work to do. When we heal ourselves, we are also healing Mother Earth.

A highly functioning human being transcends their wounds, story, and culture. This work is more important than we consciously understand because most of us don’t have a grasp on the fact that there is no separation. When one woman rises, she takes an army with her.

The same patterns will arise in your life until you face them. We must heal individually and as a collective culture. Our challenges provide an opportunity to wake up and our biggest adversities give us a mirror to go deeper into our triggers. 

Understand the basic principle that things do not always go as planned and it is necessary to have adequate coping skills. You must get to know yourself; your attitude toward life and the way you deal with problems will come up during labor and especially into motherhood. Head over to www.mysticalmotherhood.com for more help. 

Here are some questions that all women should ask themselves as they prepare for labor and delivery. The following qualities tend to lead to a low-risk childbirth. If you are pregnant and have any issues in the following areas (Which we all do!), start to address them now so that you will be prepared during birth. If you have already had your baby, these are still good questions as they affect the way you parent. Answer these questions and then begin to locate areas in your life that you could grow or need to heal.

Exercise:

• Do you consider yourself an active and independent woman? Do you like to take charge or sit back and watch others? Can you find a balance here?
• Are you able to take support from others? If someone tries to help you, how do you react?
• Are you able to deal with changes in an appropriate manner, or do you tend to resist? Do you resist people, places, changes, or yourself?
• Is there anything you are scared of? If so, are these fears being worked through?
• Do you think of yourself as a sexual being, with a healthy attitude toward sexuality and your capabilities as a woman? (I do not mean a sexual object.) Are you comfortable connecting to your reproductive organs, relaxing your pelvis, and focusing on your cervix?
• Are you clear and honest in your communication? Do you tend to lie to yourself or others? If so, when and why does this happen?
• Do your spiritual beliefs match your ideal pregnancy and birth? What is your ideal birth? What does it look like? Begin to create this daily in your mind through visualization and positive feelings or projection.
• Have you been physically or sexually abused? If so, have you dealt with these issues? (Women who have experienced sexual abuse are more likely to have dysfunctional or high-risk labors.)
• Do you ever consider yourself powerless? If so, what types of situations does this happen in, and how do you deal?
• Do you and your partner have a loving relationship? Do you trust one another? Who in your life have you not trusted and why?
• Does your partner ever speak over you or speak for you? Is your voice and opinion heard?

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