08-15-2025 PART 1: Two Sides of Love Hannah’s Pain, Elkanah’s Plea, and a Vow that Shapes a Nation

Section 1. The teaching opens in 1 Samuel with Hannah’s deep hurt under Peninnah’s taunts, highlighting how some people relish wounding others and how that spirit is utterly contrary to Christ. The call to believers is to be caregivers—helpers who offer love and support to those in pain—even when the hurting person isn’t perfect. Scripture warns us not to be surprised by sin’s prevalence in the world, but to surround ourselves with people of genuine faith who won’t take pleasure in our pain. Believers are urged to pray for mockers rather than against them, remembering that meanness flows from an unrenewed nature, while the Spirit of God moves the heart to compassion and tears.

Section 2. Turning to Elkanah’s question—“Why be sad… You have me; isn’t that better than ten sons?”—the message explores the “other side of the coin.” Elkanah loves Hannah and feels the ache of being sidelined by her anguish. The teaching asserts that in God’s design, marital unity (“the two shall become one”) is foundational and precedes child-centered priorities; divided parents raise divided homes. Husbands must cultivate sensitivity, and wives must sustain awareness of their spouse, each refusing to “cut out” the other when wounded. Practical honesty—“Don’t forget me”—protects unity, and Scripture’s family stories show favoritism and division as products of sin, not divine design. The takeaway: mutual care, single-heartedness, and steadfast togetherness model righteousness for children better than any worldly success.

Section 3. After supper at Shiloh, Hannah prays in bitter tears and vows a Nazarite dedication: if God grants a son, she will give him back to the Lord. The Nazarite markers—especially uncut hair—signal total consecration. Hannah’s vow recognizes God as the true Author of life; parents are stewards, not owners. This early surrender—placing the child on God’s altar—prefigures themes echoed in Abraham and Isaac and ultimately in the Father giving His Son. Hannah’s cry acknowledges that while the world destroys life, God gives it; her faith-filled dedication becomes the hinge of the story. The portrait closes admiring both parents: Elkanah’s honest longing for unity and Hannah’s resolute trust that life and purpose come from God, forming a pattern of devotion that still instructs families today.