Nothing Can Fix You But Vulnerability w/ Lucas Krump

On this episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay is joined by Lucas Krump. He is the co-founder of Everyman. It is an organization dedicated to men’s wellness through retreats, groups, and individual work. Lucas shares his journey of self-discovery. It was shaped by childhood trauma, substance abuse recovery, and personal growth. This led to the creation of Everyman. His path isn't just about his healing but also about empowering other men.

Reflecting on his past, Lucas describes his upbringing in Kansas. He shares the challenges that shaped him, including the loss of close family members and struggles with his father's absence. "I was able to disconnect my head and my heart," he recalls, "but that only works for so long." His turning point came when he experienced an emotional breakdown overseas. This set him on a path of deep self-exploration. Through his story, Lucas shows how confronting vulnerability can lead to profound transformation. This change occurs not just in himself but also in others walking similar paths.

Men’s mental health often goes unspoken. Societal expectations push men to suppress emotions and focus on external achievements. Lucas’s story underscores the importance of confronting these cultural norms. He promotes a healthier and more fulfilling life. He emphasizes how many men pursue traditional milestones. For example, career success, financial gain, and physical prowess. Yet, they often find themselves unsatisfied. “I did everything right and was still unhappy,” Lucas states. He illustrates how men may follow a path expected of them without questioning its deeper meaning.

Self-discovery plays a crucial role in this journey. Through his work at Everyman, Lucas encourages men to embark on a personal journey. He urges them to question and explore. He believes that understanding one's “why” is essential. This helps to find purpose beyond societal pressures. For many, this means not only embracing vulnerability but actively seeking it to heal.