Why ”Sorry” Is Sabotaging Your Success as a High Achiever | Ep 80

Are you accidentally shrinking your power with one tiny word? 😳 “Sorry” might sound polite—but for high-achieving women, it’s become a silent saboteur. Behind every apology you didn’t need to make is a hit to your confidence, your credibility, and your ability to be taken seriously. In this firestarter episode, I reveal the shocking truth about over-apologizing and how it’s secretly wrecking your career, relationships, and self-worth. 💥

🎯 What you’ll discover:

• The jaw-dropping research proving over-apologizing makes people trust you less
• How “sorry” becomes a compulsion rooted in anxiety and people-pleasing
• The real difference between accountability and self-sabotage
• Confident phrase swaps that command respect (without sounding rude)

 

In this game-changing episode, I reveal the shocking research about over-apologizing and give you practical strategies to break this anxiety-driven pattern once and for all. You'll finally understand why you can't stop saying sorry and what to do instead! ✨

 

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🔍 The shocking research:
- Leaders who over-apologize are rated 25% LESS competent by their teams 😱
- Job candidates who say "sorry" unnecessarily are seen as less qualified 💼
- Over-apologizers get promoted less often than confident communicators 📈

 

💪 Your action plan:
Instead of "Sorry to bother you" → Try "Do you have a moment?"
Instead of "Sorry for asking" → Try "I'd appreciate your help with something"
Instead of "Sorry you had a bad day" → Try "That sounds really tough"

 

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Stop diminishing yourself with unnecessary apologies! You deserve to take up space, express your needs, and communicate with confidence. Your voice matters! 🌟

 

Try this for just ONE WEEK and watch how differently people respond to you. You've got this! 💪

 

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