Episode 34: Don’t Make Assumptions
Mind Reading - and NLP term that simply says how we “read someone’s mind” about what they are going to do or how they are going to respond.
It’s easier said than done…
Friends of ours...
This person felt:
Business example: Email that was sent out and there was no response:
Assumptions:
She felt? helpless...
Waiting at an airport for a flight to go home… and you see someone in the distance that you recognize… and for a moment, you think they saw you, yet they turn around and walk away.
Assumptions:
You FELT: alone, unliked, questioning did something happen…
We are wired to make assumptions:
Steps:
Be Mindful and Present: Getting back to being curious and questioning your own thought process.
Because “what if” that’s not the case…
Another example: Jennifer
Action Steps:
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