Neurodivergent-Affirming Eating Disorder Treatment: Why One-Size-Fits-None

Standard eating disorder treatment often assumes that one model will work for everyone. But for neurodivergent people, such as autistic folks, ADHDers, and those with sensory processing differences, this approach can feel like being handed a map that doesn’t match the terrain you’re actually walking. Instead of support, clients often experience shame, retraumatization, or the sense that recovery is out of reach.

What's In This Episode

In this episode of Dr. Marianne-Land: An Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast, Dr. Marianne Miller explores why one-size-fits-all treatment fails neurodivergent clients and what affirming, individualized care looks like. She discusses how sensory sensitivities shape eating experiences, how ADHD executive functioning challenges complicate meal planning and follow-through, and how trauma and systemic oppression create additional effects that amplify struggles. She also outlines what neurodivergent-affirming eating disorder treatment looks like in practice: sensory-attuned, trauma-informed, flexible, and rooted in autonomy and consent.

Content Caution

In this episode, I discuss eating disorder treatment, recovery challenges, and the effects of trauma. Please listen with care and step away if needed.

If you or someone you love lives with ARFID, selective eating, or eating struggles connected to autism, ADHD, or have other types of neurodivergent traits, know that recovery is possible with the right support.

Check Out Related Neuroaffirming Episodes

• How Masking Neurodivergence Can Fuel Eating Disorders on Apple & Spotify.
• Complexities of Treating ARFID: How a Neurodivergent-Affirming, Sensory-Attuned Approach Works on Apple and Spotify.
• ARFID & Neurodiversity on Apple and Spotify.
• Minding the Gap: The Intersection Between AuDHD & Eating Disorders With Stacie Fanelli, LCSW on Apple and Spotify.

Get Neurodivergent-Affirming Eating Disorder Help

For deeper guidance, check out Dr. Marianne's ARFID and Selective Eating Course, which offers practical, compassionate strategies that are neurodivergent-affirming, trauma-informed, and sensory-attuned. If you’re located in California, Texas, or Washington, D.C., you can work directly with Dr. Marianne in therapy to create a path to recovery that actually fits your life.

Learn more at drmariannemiller.com.