How do we curb, hold back, sudden impulses of our passions?
In the Prologue of Spiritual Combat Revisited by Fr Jonathan Robinson (1929-2020), he gives wonderful descriptions of our fallen human condition:
deep divisions in our nature
we are pulled to what is good
we lean to what is evil.
Spiritual combat = organized effort
to overcome these divisions
to bring our lives into line with our faith in Christ
Asceticism = spiritual combat = STRUGGLE to reorder our desires towards Christ
cut away sinful aspects of self
avoid temptations
positive improvements towards perfection
What is the goal of asceticism? Growing in the love of God.
How? By removing what keeps us from loving Him and making an effort to do what we must do to love Him.