What She’s Thinking: men’s dating & sex questions answered by women
Society & Culture:Relationships
A (27), J (27), Lauren (37) answer your questions about dating and sex.
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This episode covers:
- Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners?
- What are your top 2 languages of love?
- Guys tend to think gifts [in the Languages of Love] means diamond rings and crazy expensive items. What are some of the gifts that you really appreciated, and why?
- How can we tell if she's not interested in us?
- After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app?
- After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another?
- What's the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us how you tell us yes.
- What's a way you like for a man to create connection on a date?
- What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary?
- How can a man tell if a woman has a high or low sex drive?
- Things you appreciate that men do
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