09: Why 90% Fail at Relationship Goals & How to Be the Top 10%

Have you ever set a New Year’s resolution to “finally feel secure in your relationship” or overcome your anxiety, only to feel stuck by week two? You’re not alone.

In this episode of The Anxious to Secure Podcast

Why 90% Fail at Relationship Goals & How to Be the Top 10%

✨ Why BIG goals like “becoming securely attached” might actually sabotage you.
✨ How to uncover your WHY for lasting change and overcome relationship anxiety.
✨ Tools to work WITH your subconscious mind to create emotional security and confidence.
✨ Practical strategies to break free from overthinking, people-pleasing, and emotional triggers.

💬 I’ve been in that anxious cycle too, and I’ll share personal stories and tools that helped me break free.

 

Love, Jula 

Your Anxious To Secure Coach

 

🤍 TRANSFORM YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE:

Anxious To Secure BLUEPRINT: Become secure 95% FASTER

 

🤍 COACHING:

1:1 VIP SOS Session

 

🤍 FREE WORKSHEETS + DOWNLOADS:

• WORRY-FREE Flow Chart: Free Download
• Attachment Style QUIZ – Take the 3-min quiz to be 100% sure you're
• 😱📱 Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesn’t Text Back.
• 🔍💭Challenge your thoughts - CHEAT SHEET (a must if you want to break through your old stories)

 

🤍 COURSES:

• How to Stop OVERTHINKING 🚫 🌀Your Relationship in 4 Steps (With Your Avoidant Partner)
• TEXT ANXIETY: Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less

 

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