Finding Your Power in Parenting After Childhood Trauma

Have you ever found yourself caught in a cycle of yelling at your kids, feeling guilty, then trying to make up for it with gifts or treats? As a trauma-surviving mama, I know firsthand how challenging it can be to break free from these patterns that often stem from our own childhood experiences.

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with MegAnne Ford, a parenting coach who specializes in helping families navigate the complexities of childhood development and safe caregiving practices. MegAnne shares her powerful journey from preschool teacher to trauma-informed coach, offering invaluable insights for parents struggling to manage their triggers and create a calmer home environment.

The Path to Becoming a Trauma-Informed Caregiver

MegAnne's story begins in a preschool classroom where she first learned the transformative power of creating an equitable space that meets both children's and adults' needs. This experience planted the seeds for her future work in trauma recovery and parenting support.

Through her own journey of self-reflection and healing, MegAnne discovered:

• The importance of recognizing and managing our own emotions as caregivers
• How our past experiences shape our reactions to our children's behavior
• The critical role of safety and connection in effective parenting

Breaking the Yell-Guilt-Gift Cycle

One of the most powerful insights MegAnne shares is her framework for breaking the destructive cycle of yelling, feeling guilty, and trying to make amends through gifts. She introduces the CLEAR approach:

• Connection
• Limits
• Empowerment
• Accountability
• Recovery

The Power of Connection in Healing Trauma

Perhaps the most profound takeaway from our conversation is the understanding that our children are often catalysts for our triggers, but not the cause. By focusing on connection and presence, we can begin to heal not only our relationships with our children but also the wounded parts of ourselves.

If you're ready to transform your parenting approach and create a more peaceful home environment, this episode is a must-listen. MegAnne's compassionate insights and practical strategies offer hope and guidance for any parent struggling to break free from the cycles of their past.

Remember, mama: healing is possible, and you don't have to do it alone. Let's journey together towards more conscious, connected parenting.

Connect with MegAnne: https://bekindcoaching.com/

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